The simple truth about love
by Bradley Trevor Greive

Falling in love is just like kissing-
no two people do it the same way.

A legendary romance may begin with the briefest of beautiful encounters or casual introduction by a mutual friend, who is then completely forgetten in all the excitement.

You might feel the hairs on the back of your neck stand up as you turn to meet the piercing gaze of an enchanting stranger across a crowded room,across a parking lot, a bowling alley, or an all-you-can-eat-buffet.The location is not important. Often you are just sitting there minding your own business and then WHAM! Love suddenly hits on you out of the blue, and your pulse is off and running.

That such a fleeting chance encounter can result in so many overwhelming feelings tells us a lot about the power of love.

Like the sun or a fiendishly expensive designer fragrance, love is an intoxicating force that draws all living creatures.

Love inspires us to do great, beautiful, terrible things and a bunch of weird and stupid stuffs.

That's because when we fall in love, our reason and perspective become distorted, and we discover the lover's paradox.Suddenly, we have clear purpose, but we suffer overwhelming indecision.

The affectionate attention we receive means we feel more self-affirmed and radiant than ever before, and yet we are sick with self-doubt and insecurity.

The key word is Patience.

Don't be afraid to slow things down.

The process is all about trust.Slowly, we get closer and closer. Some things just shouldn't be rushed, and love is always worth waiting for.

The truthj is that love is always beautiful, and it may even feel perfect. But it can never be so, not all the time.

Falling in love is an exquisite but complex coming together of two individuals, and a beautiful, dynamic living relationship always has some ups and downs.

Even the most loving couples can't possibly agree on absolutely everything. Take a simple misunderstanding combine it with a little poor communication.Then add some emotional baggage from previous relationships, and then romance starts to flounder. A civil conversation can break down because of a few careless or caustic remarks.

Two people who seemed so right for each other see all their hopes and dreams disappear. And yet, if they would just make a little effort to reach out and reconnect, everything might be all right.

The bottom line is that love, like everything else in life that really matters, requires genuine effort. Cuddles and kisses go a long way toward making love last, but they aren't enough by themselves.Sometimes, you have to get out and push if you want your love to keep going forward, which is why falling in love can occasionally be almost as exhausting as it is invigorating.

This is one of the 2 main reasons some people turn their backs on love. It's hard enough taking responsibility for your own feelings, let alone looking after someone else's heart as well right?

second reasons is ppl who give up love on is FEAR.Fear of being hut, fear of rejections, fear of potential lovers who turn out to be evil people.Fear is the number-one obstacle to falling in love. But a little fear is not so terrible.In fact, it's normal and healthy.

The journey to true love is not as daunting as it seems. You don't have to lose yourself to find someone else. On the countary, different points of view are every bit as important as the things you have in common.Two lives. One love.

Your own personality flourishes ina relationship, which brings out your best at home and at work. Falling in love means you still get to do everything that mades you truly happy, but now you also have the joy of sharing those things with someone else. Plus, You get a whole bunch of bonus benefits as well.

When you are in love, it means there is always someone who will jumps around with celebratory squeals when you are a winner, or give warmth and support when you are not. Love gives us the strength to test the boundaries of our weaknesses, knowing that when we get in over our heads, a rescue mission is already on the way.

To experience such a relationship is to know that every breath affirms that you are loved and that true love overcomes all obstacles.True love can climb the highest mountain and cross the deepest seas.Nothing can hold back love.True love overcomes anything and everything.

Realizing the power of love feels like a light switch is suddenly turned on inside your heart. The world looks different. Or perhaps you are looking at it differently.Your search draws to a close. You have finally found true love, Or true love has finally found you. "Hello!"

The beginning=)

♥ 12:19:00 PM